A Trauma Therapist Describes Big T & Little T Trauma

Understanding trauma is essential. This article delves into the complexities of both Big T and Little T trauma and provides insights into healing.

Big T Traumas Are Widely Acknowledged as Trauma

Oftentimes, we associate the word 'trauma' with extreme bodily harm, sexual violence, or death. Or, an experience that threatens to cause these things. Some examples that may immediately come to mind are:
  • Being in combat zones
  • Experiencing a natural disaster
  • Being in a deadly car accident
  • Or being sexually assaulted
These events are known as 'big T' Traumas. People who experience these situations tend to experience a distressing trauma response in the aftermath. As a result, they may even meet the criteria for Posttraumatic Stress Disorder. But, these are not the only situations that may cause significant and valid distress for someone.

Little t Trauma Is Still Trauma

"Little t" traumas are situations that feel disturbing or distressing to you on a personal level. But, they may not rise to the level of threatening your physical safety. Examples of "little t" traumas can include:
  • Getting cheated on
  • Being bullied
  • Being fired
  • Displaying a poor performance in public
  • The passing of a pet
  • Feeling unloved/unlikeable as a child
These experiences don't jeopardize your safety. But, this does not mean that they should be dismissed or pushed down. These situations are still known to cause valid emotional distress and upset. In fact, this can sometimes occur years later. You may find that you are often thinking about it and that your quality of life has decreased.

Unresolved Traumas Can Be Healed

You may not believe that you have the time or energy to better manage these symptoms. You may have other immediate obligations. This may include caring for kids, getting through school, or meeting work deadlines. But, when you notice and address emotional concerns, you will notice that you have more emotional energy to handle the other things in your life. Because believe it or not, it takes emotional energy to avoid or push down a trauma response.

Other Services Offered with Hope For The Journey

Trauma therapy isn't the only service our team offers from our Round Rock and Austin locations. We also offer therapy for depression, domestic violence, sexual assault, and anger management. We are happy to offer our services to children, teens and young adults, men, couples, and the LGBTQ community. Feel free to learn more by contacting us or visiting our blog today!

Start Overcoming Past Trauma

If you would like extra support, feel free to reach out to a trauma therapist at Hope For The Journey. We all have extensive training in treating symptoms of trauma. We would be honored to be that safe space as you continue to explore and heal from your traumatic experiences.
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